January 2, 2006
In the human sciences (psychology), one of the main rules for resolving a dispute is suggested to be the following:
When someone who means something to you starts to tell you all kinds of weaknesses, or reproach you, a human reaction is to hold up the mirror to the other party in order to demonstrate his/her weaknesses (which of course are also there). This usually won't solve anything but the positions only harden.
So here are a few rules:
1) I still love you dearly.
2) I will therefore do my best to give up my weaknesses, without asking for anything in return.
3) I'm by no means the boss!
4) Task for both of us: love and respect!
Your Pieter
Monday, January 02, 2006 Both of us write a note to each other, vowing to do our best for the coming year!
Pieter on January 8, 2006 with our Spooky boy in front of Infiniti
Pieter's grades for Psychology, Pedagogy and Didactics 9 or A+
